Feeling adrift after a large finish

Noah’s Sub by Stoney Creek

A bit before the pandemic, my friend Erica sold off all her stitching stash including some WIPs she had started. One of the ones I bought from her was Noah’s Sub. I had the pattern already, it was out of print and a Unicorn but I had it.

First picture I took of Noah’s Sub in November 2020 before working on it.
First full picture of Noah’s Sub, I had already added stitches to the ocean around the octopus.

It was a little over half finished when I inherited it. I worked my way around it in a clockwise fashion and substituted beads for French knot eyes.

And finished it with 66378 stitches (it takes 2 half stitches of sky to count as one stitch and 1 bead counts as 1 stitch).

Shortly after finishing Noah’s Sub, I finished a small Stacy Nash pattern, Bobbin.

Bobbin by Stacy Nash with color changes by me.

I stitched Bobbin as a shop model and think I want to stitch it again with a few changes for myself.

But now that I’ve finish such a large project with a smaller finish after, I’m feeling at loose ends. I have 33 WIPs to choose from but nothing seems to be calling loudly.

I would normally go to my WIPGO pieces but I’m caught up except for the TW pieces from March (still need 400 stitches in Fortunate Traveller and 700 for Summer Carousel Horse) and I’m not in the mood to really work on those tonight.

I just finished the 1000 stitches for my WIPGO on Storied Steeds so not feeling that one. Secret Carousel needs really good light so not something to work on at night.

I’m kind of feeling like I should work on my sister’s West Point Sampler but then I could also try to finish my WIP Warriors stitches for Lion and Lamb which is Kingdom of Books.

Other options to work on today – Diamond Bouquet by Just Nan, Sentinel by Fire Wing Designs, Stitch Every Day by Hands On Design, Summer Queen by Mirabilia which hasn’t had any love this year, Ladybird Fairy by Joan Elliott needs to be mounted on the other scroll bars.

I could also start on a new small – Like my copy of Bobbin since the one I finished was a shop model. I could also start my other Christmas piece (Another Reindeer was made).

Or since this was a BAP I finished, I could start a new large – like Glendon Place’s Sleepy Hollow or Winter Queen by Mirabilia or Butterfly Fairy by Joan Elliott.

It’s 9:00 so I need to make a decision soon.

Less than 2 months left in the year.

To finish my stitching goals for the year, I would need to put in 73,230 across 17 projects.

Eight projects have not been touched this year at all. So do I focus on completing the stitch goals for the smaller projects or do I try to put some stitches in projects that haven’t been touched at all this year?

No, instead of working on WIPs my neurodivergent brain jumped to let’s have new starts.

Balsam Fir from Jack Frost’s Tree Farm by Little House Needleworks

What invention during your lifetime had the greatest impact.

When my oldest was in elementary school she received an assignment to ask the oldest person she was related to what invention changed your life or had the greatest impact.

L asked the question to Mimi, my great grandmother, Mamie Silver. Mimi answered that to her it was the sewer system. She always had indoor plumbing but the sewer system meant that the “honey truck” which emptied the septic holding tanks and took the waste to the processing plant.

My grandmother asked L if she wanted an answer for class or a real answer. The answer for class was the electric washing machine. The real answer was tampons and disposable pads. The washing machine freed up days of women’s time so they could start contributing to society outside of the home. It gave women time to gather outside the home and socialize which led to wanting to fix social injustices since many learned their problems were shared and not isolated cases.

Papa, my grandfather, said it was the automobile. Now it didn’t take two hours to get ready to go anywhere and he could get from Salt Lake City to San Diego in a single day (which is still true unless you drive a Tesla). With a horse and buggy, Salt Lake to St.George was a week long trip as 10-30 miles is a full day by buggy. Most out of state trips were train rides.

Even when cars first arrived, before the interstate system, it was a full day to St. George and then a day to Vegas, one would sleep all day and drive the desert from Vegas to California at night.

I was thinking today, how would I answer the question. I had to take Typing in high school and the teacher docked me points for putting my transcription book on the left side of the typewriter. He told me no office would ever allow me to accommodate my left handed “disability.” I was working for an insurance company doing data entry and brought him a Polaroid of my desk set up showing I had a left side credenza. He still gave me a C. My senior year we got a computer for the high school and a class in Basic programming was offered. Girls were actively discouraged from participating. My husband’s high school was further west than mine and they didn’t have any computers in the building even by his 5 year reunion.

My kids had keyboarding classes in elementary school. The computer lab was available to any student who didn’t have a home computer. They weren’t connected to the internet until after my kids were in junior high when the elementary school got a Microsoft grant to upgrade the computer lab.

I remember the outcry when I was in junior high and calculators were allowed to be used in algebra and trigonometry classes. Parents were sure that this was a government conspiracy to prevent kids from learning to use slide rules and was dumbing down education.

Also, I got thinking of Title 9 which passed when I was in junior high. The school now allowed girls to sign up for wood and metal shop and boys were allowed to sign up for cooking or sewing. I hated the home ec teacher (she believed soap and deodorant would give her cancer and she stank). So I signed up for wood shop. The counselor convinced my parents that I would lose all social standing if I took wood shop. So they changed my classes and while my friends were in wood shop I was in the stinky sewing class making stupid frogs and I think I made a Hawaiian shirt for my sister. I sometimes wonder if my dislike of sewing with a machine comes from that class.

Title 9 also came into play when I was in college. I tried to sign up for a business major and was told BYU didn’t have a secretarial track. I told them I was interested in sales and marketing. I got laughed at and the counselor left the office. I went across the quad and ended up in communications. Then, when I realized my communication classes were the ones I was skipping, I talked to one of my philosophy professors who suggested doing a general humanities major with a pre-law or pre-MBA emphasis. I was still a little sore about the business school so signed up for the pre-law track.

I got married one semester short of graduation and finished the final quarter pregnant and commuting from the Avenues in SLC to Provo (back then a 2 hour drive). After my daughter was born I started graduate school but soon realized that the social work degree I was enrolled in wouldn’t pay enough to cover the student loans I was taking out so I quit the and went to work. And that leads to other stories for another day.

Finally understand what people mean by dated colors…

So after I was done being pregnant I took all of my business pregnancy clothes to a second-hand shop to see if I could recoup some of the costs and besides, we were really broke. The lady would only buy one item, a grey dress that looked like a suit skirt when worn with a sweater. She told me everything else was the wrong colors. They just weren’t in any more.

I had no clue what she was talking about.

How did color go out of style? I mean jade and royal blue are classic colors, right?

Then I stitched some of my older Just Nan patterns and something clicked –

Just Nan All Aboard stitched by Stasha

All Aboard was copyrighted in 2000, but these colors just scream 1980s to me. And that made me look at some of the older WIPS I have kitted up and I’m working on.

Goblin Market by Counted Illuminations stitched by Stasha

Goblin Market is also 80s pink and green. I would hate to put in the time to finish it and hate it. So I’m wondering if I leave the green, what do I change to modernize it. Do I rip out the pink and white flowers and make them fuschia or periwinkle or will those be dated in 20 years too.

Would you stitch this as is or what would you do to freshen it up?

“We must stand still so our daughters can look back and see how far they’ve come.

I saw the Barbie movie with my daughter and This was the line that made me cry.

I’m finding that people either love or hate this movie. There seems to be no in-between.

I went with my daughter and my sister in law and we laughed and we cried and we loved Helen Mirren and Weird Barbie and we wore pink. We adored Ann Roth, and left telling every other woman in the theater that they are beautiful.

But we don’t stand still so our daughters can see how far they’ve come. We climb as far as we can on the shoulders of the women who came before us and we bring our daughters with us, and then we boost them forward as far as we can. Only then we do move everything forward.

I wonder if part of my reaction to the movie was a reaction to an article I read yesterday about how women have been written out of history by the record keepers.

It reminded me of the Prologue to Women of Futures Past by Kristine Kathryn Rausch, the former editor of The Magazine of Fantasy and Science Fiction, who realized that when it came to the history of science fiction the great women writers were being lost since they weren’t being included in the modern anthologies. Not to mention that she was left out of the listing of editors for F&SF in Locus magazine despite having edited for years. And by leaving women out of the historical record, women today think there is a barrier to overcome that never existed.

Today we Stitch, tomorrow we frog.

Decided to start Alice in Wonderland by Bothy threads today on the lovely piece of Fiery Skies I got from Under the Sea Fabrics. Got 212 stitches in and realized I started Alice on the piece I bought for Mad Hatters Tea Party. So pulled out the piece for Alice and started over 303 stitches later and I realize I’ve put an extra stitch in Cheshire Cat’s head. Normally I would leave it in and rearrange the rest of it but I realize that on stitch off is going to throw off the border and it may not match. So today was stitching and tomorrow we frog.

Last of my Stitching Sirens purchases came in…

I have never been a fan of fabric project bags until now. These bags are large enough for an 11 x 11 assembled Qsnap and the fibers. The vinyl window pocket is perfect for identifying information- (remember in heat paper sticks to vinyl so a picture but not the pattern).

These are from Tanya Rivas at Needle and Bone https://www.facebook.com/groups/450941870437254/?ref=share

I have Noah’s Sub in one, Secret Carousel from HAED is in another.

June is a month for impulse purchases

In June 2021 used vehicles were hard to come by but we were lucky and found a beautiful Toyota Tacoma Sport model.

Since this was my truck, I got it pinstriped by a Rat Fink artist. Keith knew this was a girl truck and needed pink and purple.

I’ve been driving her when I have to leave the house.

So 47 days ago my husband decided to drive his girlfriend down to pick up his watch from repair.

My husband’s girlfriend

While at the jeweler’s shop, the manager of SLC Porsche told my husband that his girlfriend was just what someone was looking to acquire for a special project. So he thought about it and decided that we had 23 years of fun and it’s starting to turn into a garage queen and the price was right.

Then we got an invitation to the annual Porsche club summer social. So DH started missing his car and today we went back to the dealership and told Gavin that we had a problem- there’s a hole in our garage without a Porsche.- DH had done some research online of the used cars they had in, on the lot.

And I would like you to meet my new baby who needs a name.

Yes the mirrors fold in when the engine shuts off.

Funny thing is the payment on my new ride is the same amount as the payment on my old ride. We had paid off that loan with the proceeds from the sale of the girlfriend. At the end of the day, I have a car loan again but can use the amount previously budgeted for the truck. So, what should I name the Cayenne?